I have a lot of casual sex but miss commitment!

A young woman comes to me saying that she has a lot of sex, watches a lot of porn, but miss commitment. In this case my question is – and it would apply also if the question came from a man: If you met someone who had been an alcoholic or drug addict for many years and […]

My man is too passive!

A woman tells me she finds her man too passive, not taking enough initiative to have sex. Here I first want to make you aware of that we all have a different amount of physical, sexual energy in our bodies that makes us want to have sex. The initiative towards having sex, whether it comes from the man or the women, depends […]

SHOULD MEN TAKE INITIATIVE AND WOMEN BE PASSIVE IN SEX?

This widespread belief leads women to blame men for their sexual unhappiness. It puts unrealistic expectations on men who develops fear and tiredness; making love becomes hard work. Assertive men are thought to be more masculine and thereby more desirable to women. Sadly, both sexes play many games in sex, not realising that the illusions […]

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