Couples in crisis

Couples came to me in almost a crisis and after the first session they see that their problems were misleading information about sex and intimacy received from outside world. Every couples problem is totally unique. Yes, the information most people get about sex from the very early age is very misleading and makes them be […]

I have a lot of casual sex but miss commitment!

A young woman comes to me saying that she has a lot of sex, watches a lot of porn, but miss commitment. In this case my question is – and it would apply also if the question came from a man: If you met someone who had been an alcoholic or drug addict for many years and […]

My man is too passive!

A woman tells me she finds her man too passive, not taking enough initiative to have sex. Here I first want to make you aware of that we all have a different amount of physical, sexual energy in our bodies that makes us want to have sex. The initiative towards having sex, whether it comes from the man or the women, depends […]

Why many couples have sexual problems

Today’s world is a place where most men and women are working excessively to reach high ranking positions in their jobs or trying to be in the spotlight. They are focused on their career and pay little attention to creating loving relationships, better health and meaningful intimacy. Yet, rank, status, wealth, fame and other achievements […]


Touch can be a way to express love. When it is, we are less focused on what it will give us, instead we want to communicate our love for our partner. We are focused on giving, not on getting, and so are less likely to get upset if the other doesn’t respond in a way […]