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ED – Erectile Dysfunction

I received an email from a man, 31 years old, looking for help with his problem with erection. “How can I go about overcoming the sexual difficulties me and my partner have been experiencing? For a long time I’ve had some form of ED. I can achieve an erection without problem during foreplay, masturbation or […]

What is intimacy?

We all want intimacy though we often do not understand that intimacy is different from just being sexual or having sexual desire. We all want to be sexually attractive. This is a deep and fundamental desire in everyone and it gives us confidence, inspiration, energy, a sense of power and well-being. As human beings we are […]

Sexual Innocence

What is innocence? Innocence in general terms is lack of guilt, or lack of wrong doing. It means a person never committed any crime or other offense. We usually attribute innocence to children. They still don’t know about ‘bad things’ or have deliberately bad intentions. They have what we call innocent eyes, not desiring anything that […]

I have a lot of casual sex but miss commitment!

A young woman comes to me saying that she has a lot of sex, watches a lot of porn, but miss commitment. In this case my question is – and it would apply also if the question came from a man: If you met someone who had been an alcoholic or drug addict for many years and […]

My man is too passive!

A woman tells me she finds her man too passive, not taking enough initiative to have sex. Here I first want to make you aware of that we all have a different amount of physical, sexual energy in our bodies that makes us want to have sex. The initiative towards having sex, whether it comes from the man or the women, depends […]

True lovers

During true lovemaking your hands become your eyes, your ears, your brain. Your hands can know everything about your lover just by touching them. And your hands can pass everything on through touch. When people make love they should become like blind people, hypersensitive. A blind person reacts to the slightest sound, to the slightest […]

Male and female sexuality. Cats and dogs!

The male body is in its nature like a dog in the best sense. A dog is always ready to jump and run to catch the ball or stick. It wants to do it over and over again. A man is always ready to participate in sex to “get” an orgasm. It is the biological purpose […]

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